Fellatio and Cunnilingus

Fellatio and Cunnilingus
Do you prefer receiving this Oral Pleasure or do you prefer to give it. I say to be fair it should go both ways. Not necessarily at the same time because one should be able to lie back, relax and enjoy the Art.
Mmmm, ART, what is Art? Some definitions of “art”, is talent, skill, knack, or ability to do/ make something.
While we’re on the topic of art when performing Fellatio or Cunnilingus how good should you be for your partner to really enjoy the experience.
Do you believe that the person doing the action should really enjoy performing this "art" or just do it to please the receiver? Does it make a difference and can you tell?

I've heard "the messier it is- the better? If it's food we're talking about I totally agree. We should be able to just dig right into eh! So I guess if we're talking about "eating" anything , perhaps it's all the same.

The history of Fellatio goes back as far as 100-300 A.D. Whole chapters in the Kama- Sutra have been written about this act that has also been referred to as “Mouth Congress” by the Indian’s in the Middle East, Greeks would call this act “Playing the Flute”, and Egyptians that have coined this term as “Sore Throat”. We have come a long way. For example: BJ's, head, brains, all you can eat buffet, I know I'm leaving many out but those are just a few.

What are your good and bad experiences with Fellatio and or Cunnilingus. Ladies and Gent’s is it necessary to “lick before you stick?” Are there any tips you have out there for the masses?

WHAT Is Dating and WHAT does it Mean!?

This topic comes up from time to time in conversations about relationships. I took the time to do a little survey but I want more opinions since this is such a vague definition or just simply put a "case by case basis." What are your thoughts about dating because honestly I'M SO OVER IT! I find it exhausting and confusing at times. When people date I feel that they are hardly ever on the same page. And when they are it's shortly lived. Why is that? Do people date for different reasons? Please explain your thoughts and opinions. Below is my survey. I'm curious to know some examples of miscommunication on the topic or just some good old juicy stories relating to DATING!

Survey Says:

Female response age 27:
Dating can be open or exclusive, but to me dating means that you guys do other things besides having sex. Meaning if the only time you see him is when you guys are laying down on 400 thread count sheets, then he is just a "friend" aka booty call. But, if you guys spend quality time together like going out dinner, etc. then you guys are definitely dating. Also I think ladies need to be smart enough to figure it out, like when the two of you find it hard not to connect with each other at least once a day or every other day, just to say hi or see how each others day is going, then I think the type of relationship that you are in speaks for itself. I also don't think a woman should ask a man after 2 dates "are we dating?", to me it is moving a little to fast. I would let it flow for at least a month and if you see that your feelings are getting stronger and you truly feel a connection with this person, " then you ask the exclusive or non-exclusive question"

P.S. I'm a serial dater, lol


Female response age 33:
Well, in that specific scenario I think the woman wanted to know if they were "DATING" or just sleeping (either 1 or more times) which it could be possible without "DATING". You can sleep with someone & not necessarily be "DATING" them, BUT that's why you should speak about it before hand if you care. Another point is I think as a woman one should know when a man wants to "date" you or just sleep with you... I think it shows (at least most of the times)
If this man didn't call after sleeping with that woman... he's obviously not interested in a solid/serious way, plus he could be "dating" or just sleeping with other women. I think this is not respectful towards the woman, he should had be a gentleman & call.
To me "DATING" is getting together with someone (with or with out sex) in order to get to know each other, by spending time together, doing activities & talking about the personal details in life of the person, this way you can find out if you have things in common & are compatible. Then you can make a decision if you wanna keep going further with the person. Yes, it could be just physical attraction but then eventually nothing solid will come out of it. Normally I believe people date so they can find out if they can be in a relationship with that person right?
Yes, I do agree that "DATING" can be open, so its up to one to decide what kind of "DATING" we want or expect from the other... exclusive or open? Maybe that's why sometimes is good to take our time (regarding sleeping with someone) unless one just want to have fun.
Like the dictionary says: "DATING": go out with someone in whom one is romantically or sexually interested.
This can be done with as many people as one chooses I guess... But to me the ideal would be to DATE only 1 person at a time.
Male response age 34:
To me dating starts when intimate moments occur. having at least 2 dates under the belt. time before sex but, after the first kiss. That's just my manly perspective on dating.

Female response age 27:
if Jill were dating I took it as her trying to get some sought of clarity. It is important that the two agree and confirm that they agree on what both terms mean. I believe that dating allows the option to see other people and if you're in a relationship that means the two are boyfriend/girlfriend, unless of course, if they specify and agree as to whether they are in an open or exclusive relationship
They need to just stop playing games and make it happen. To me its black or white, either you want to be together exclusively or you want to date (and have sex) and see other people (which I deem to be a friendship with benefits).

Male response age 29:
I think dating is trial period or a long term test of feeling out a person. Deciding if you want to make an investment in that person or what kind of relationship you want with them-if any. It doesn't mean that you’re a relationship it simply means just hanging out with them from time. It doesn't change anything even if sex is involved. I think that they don’t have to be in agreement for them to be dating, it depends on what each persons goal or intentions are with the other. They don’t have mutual intentions.
Male response age 28:
To me dating is sex with a person more than once(not few and far btw) makes them my 'dater' as I like to call it. Also if we share romance (i.e. sweet, flirty talk or kissing) Oh and if they are my dater then that means that we are letting each other know if we are dating someone else or sexing someone else... that is if there is respect.) PLUS going on dates, that also makes them my 'dater'
Female response age 29:
That's funny but confusing to all... What's the answer?!?!?!

Male response age 35:
Dating is the time two people spend where they can be intimate and they’re actually sharing social moments to figure out what the upside of their potential could be. This can go on for a long periods time. It just basically needs to be done until the two people come to some sort of agreement of the details of what their relationship is going to be. For instance it could lead to an exclusive relationship, a friendship with benefits, open relationships and more.
Female Response 30
It means just having sex and getting to know each other. Once you've both decided to not just have sex exclusively but to share an exclusive bond that's when you're titled girlfriend/boyfriend.

Hair Down There

Ladies and Gent’s what do you prefer? The question goes both ways, however my nicknames are for the girls privates only! This is a matter of cleanliness, comfort, and of course the obvious- appearance.

I think that it all really depends on your partner’s tastes and how you feel down there. But before we get into that lets bring up WHY we have pubic hair. Well let’s just say that pubic hair has a similar function as our eyebrows and lashes. If guessed protection from dust and such excluding shade from the sun than that is correct. We have that little jungle to protect our privates from the invasion of little critters such as crabs, mites, dirt, lint and fuzz, among other things that may interrupt our little party down there. We also have glands there that secret pheromones that attract the opposite sex. The pubic hair essentially will trap your sweat and the heat of your body mixing with your pheromones and can potentially drive someone wild.

Now, which one do you have and what do you prefer for your partner? Are you two on the same page? Pick from the 3 or a combination of the two and I hope you don’t have a little bit of all of them! LOL We have the: Eddie Munster (a full jungle with extremely low maintenance), The Hitler (the signature “mustache”, not exactly the landing strip but maybe a helicopter pad, and last but not least the Georgia Peach (all bare and smooth with the occasional fuzz) Is the sex better with or with out the weeds! Do you like “private floss” instead of the wax coated mint flavored type, how about a lil’ facial scrub while you’re pleasing your partner? Dish dish dish ladies and gent’s!

Who Loves To Masturbate!?

I would like to begin first by saying that there is NOTHING to be ashamed about nor kept in the dark! (Unless the light breaks your concentration)
We all do or at some point have masturbated in our life. It is perfectly natural and healthy.
At a very young age we have all humped something! Whether is was a stuffed animal, the corner of a couch or our pillows, we have all been there before. And I doubt that anyone would say "they didn't like it". It is not nasty! You know yourself better than anyone, so it would make perfect sense.

*And please don't be so proud to say you don't it in reference to thinking "you get enough booty and don't have to resort to a "good ol' fashion hand job". (Oh please)
Besides, MASTURBATING IS THE SAFEST SEX YOU CAN HAVE. You can't catch an STD that way, so I'd rather have sex with myself for peace of mind.

It has been proven that there are a number of health benefit's that result from masturbating. So what are you doing to improve your health! If you haven't masturbated this week, I recommend you put it on the to do list asap.

It helps the muscles all over your body relax "including the brain", it relieves stress (we all know stress kills), also insomnia.

In men it has been proven that between the ages of 20-50 that masturbating can reduce the risk of prostate cancer. So in the words of the King of Pop "Just Beat It". "Certain build up" in the prostate can cause cancer so set those nasty lil buggers free! It'll make you feel good.
I mean the feel good part because frankly we are happier people when we're getting some or don't have that built frustration.
Masturbating can stimulate the immune system that in turn helps fight common infections...have you had a cold lately? =] Perhaps your not taking care of business.

Oh and I cannot forget to mention all the calories you can burn! Weight loss has always been a topic of discussion and how many times has it been your new years resolution.
Did you ever think to say "I promise to masturbate more this year". Try it? Discover yourself with no fear because it is not addictive and its completely safe. (unless of course you choose to use unnecessary objects/ not toys)

I want to talk about calories & masturbating again:
perspiring = 8 cal, if you're standing while doing it= 9cal, clitoral orgasms= 15cal, vaginal orgasms= 21, penile= 21, scrotal= 15, rectal= 25, relieving tension= 12cal, using your hands= 11cal, your fingers= 9, vibrators= 5-12cal
(I could go on and on but you do the math)
HELLO! you can have fun, burn cal's and feel great afterwards! Who needs to go to the gym anymore!
Those calories are when you on the job solo, what if you add a partner or two! Could you imagine.
All I'm saying is that everyone does it at some point and shouldn't be ashamed or embarrassed about this act.

What I want to know is who do you think does more often...men or women?
I think it's easier for men for a few reasons.
One, their sexual instrument alone is less complicated, two they don't have a clitoris and a vagina, and three ours requires a lot more concentration. If you disagree tell us why?

Also is it a turn on to be watched while masturbating or more of a distraction? Do you prefer to do a lone or with "help"?

I liked to be watched but not during that. It's a distraction. (Besides concentrating on the prize, we women think too much. What is he thinking, is he looking at my face, omg is it hilarious, should I suck it in or let it all hang out!) YIKES too much going on and takes away from it all. This is a solo job for me.

Do married couples masturbate more or less?
Ladies do you like your toys or do you prefer finger's?

What are your thoughts?

Penis Size! If you had to choose what would do it for you? Girth or Length

This is a much debated topic amongst my friends and I. It comes up often when we "women" have to do the "test" before giving the good stuff away. I wish we had x-ray vision to save us all from the disappointment! And poor men with their ego's and their penis size. I'm guessing its learned from a very young age because I know I'm not the only one who remembers little boys learning to grab their little "Sammy Sausage" to suggest they're packing.
Not to mention the old and still current rule (or should I say ruler) that referring to the size of a mans hands or his shoes will determine how well endowed he may be. I say bull crap! However I will research for any scientific facts that support that the size of a mans hands or his feet are at all related to his penis size. What if his feet are big and busted! What does that mean?
So,
I'm curious! What will it be? Of course a nice median is desirable- the good ol'
"Good and Plenty", it should hit the spot every time.
But if you had to choose would it be.....
Girth (the yummy chubby) or Length (long and lean).
Id love to hear your thoughts so let's DISH!
I'm down with the Girth People!
People fail to realize that the G-Spot is only a few inches deep inside, all that extra penis can be a waist. Where are you going to put it!? lol