Fellatio and Cunnilingus
Do you prefer receiving this Oral Pleasure or do you prefer to give it. I say to be fair it should go both ways. Not necessarily at the same time because one should be able to lie back, relax and enjoy the Art.
Mmmm, ART, what is Art? Some definitions of “art”, is talent, skill, knack, or ability to do/ make something.
While we’re on the topic of art when performing Fellatio or Cunnilingus how good should you be for your partner to really enjoy the experience.
Do you believe that the person doing the action should really enjoy performing this "art" or just do it to please the receiver? Does it make a difference and can you tell?
I've heard "the messier it is- the better? If it's food we're talking about I totally agree. We should be able to just dig right into eh! So I guess if we're talking about "eating" anything , perhaps it's all the same.
The history of Fellatio goes back as far as 100-300 A.D. Whole chapters in the Kama- Sutra have been written about this act that has also been referred to as “Mouth Congress” by the Indian’s in the Middle East, Greeks would call this act “Playing the Flute”, and Egyptians that have coined this term as “Sore Throat”. We have come a long way. For example: BJ's, head, brains, all you can eat buffet, I know I'm leaving many out but those are just a few.
What are your good and bad experiences with Fellatio and or Cunnilingus. Ladies and Gent’s is it necessary to “lick before you stick?” Are there any tips you have out there for the masses?
Why is the topic of sex and certain sexual acts still a hush hush make you blush subject!? I personally believe that IF YOU HAVE NOT DONE IT "YET/ BEFORE" THAN YOU CERTAINLY HAVE AT LEAST THOUGHT ABOUT IT! So don't act so prude! lol
ReplyDeleteI'll try to keep it brief, I don't necessarily believe that the messier it is the better. Since we are likening these acts to food, somethings are meant to be savored and not just devoured, you miss a lot of the subtle flavors when you just "dig in" and scarf down a meal. The way you eat depends on what (or who) you are eating. You wouldn't eat oysters or creme brulee the same way you'd eat a hot dog & ice cream. Performing sexual acts is the same, you have certain partners in which you just want to get your nut and get out, therefore you would devour it without the courtesy of thinking about your partner. However if savored and done with skill, the sexual act can be heavenly to the person receiving as well as the person giving.
ReplyDeleteAs for art, both cunnilingus and fellatio I believe are an art form from your definition of art. As with both (art and oral sex) it is usually better when the artist does it because they love to do it rather than an artist who paints for a paycheck. It is rare to find a person who admits to liking giving oral sex, eventhough there are many who do. I personally give with the intent of pleasing my partner because I believe pleasure given is pleasure received. To me it's better when the person giving brains likes to do it because they are thinking of you as well as learning what make you moan. I don't like when someone gives head only to receive it in return and I especially hate it when the person does it as if it is a chore they'd rather skip. It brings me no pleasure to be treated like something that has to be done rather than something that wants to be done.
Not to sound cocky but I am rather skilled at both (so I've been told) and I know that I like to learn the body of the person I am with. I like to know what works for them and what doesn't so that we can both have a great sexual & sensual experience. Even if it never happens again.
it's not always necessary to "lick before you stick" just preferred. But again if it's gonna be treated like a bother, then don't bother. As for tips, I just say pay attention to the response of your partner, both physical and vocal!! Sometimes people miss what works for them while doing what they think is good. And have fun, try to enjoy yourself while enjoying others.